Who's unreasonable?

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If you had a deal with someone that you would give them a life somewhere you were going on 1 day then they would give you a lift somewhere else you were both going on another day.
Then ,on the day, you cancelled giving them a lift to the first place because you were going somewhere (Asda) before you went..

Would you show up at the persons house for your lift?

Are you unreasonable for assuming you were getting a lift or the other person for assuming u weren't ?

Being as it's a reciprocal arrangement and she cancelled the first part I can see you weren't expecting her. But I can also see why she was still expecting a lift!

I think this is the clearest post on the thread

How unbelievably rude of her to cancel on you for that reason

Sounds like a logic puzzle.

I would have got in first with
Text -oh sorry car broken -insert other lie of choice.
Cheeky cow !

She was extremely rude and I’d be very disappointed in her. I certainly wouldn’t rely on her again.

However it’s not massively surprising that someone so rude would still expect a lift unless you actively cancelled.