Does this article sound familiar?
www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/82dcd957-fb96-422c-b037-ad2645d7d3b7?
I have PMDD. I'm a single parent who works full time so I have a busy life. I have my period and feel a bit yuk as you expect to. It dries up and I feel great. I'm happy, full of beans, get through work/housework/parenting with no issues, do a bit of exercise. Life is great!
Then I ovulate and then for the next two weeks, I get physical PMS symptoms like stomach cramps, sore boobs and serious cravings. My mood plummets and I feel like I'm a waste of space and everyone hates me. I have chronic insomnia, I make mistakes, I can't be arsed to do jobs at home, I'm easily irritated by my children and so on.
Then I my period starts and it's like a huge dark cloud has been lifted and I start finding I have the energy to sort out the messes I made in the dark two weeks.
I've tried the herbal and supplement remedies but nothing really worked.
Contraception helps some people, but not if you are sensitive to progesterone as that makes it worse. After many failed attempts with various types, I fall into that camp!
Some women find taking SSRI's either all the time, or just for the two weeks after ovulation can help. Sadly I've reacted badly to those and can't seem to find one that suits me.
I've just been referred to the hospital gynae dept, where they are going to look at analogue injections which puts your body into menopause. If I cope fine on those and all the symptoms go away, they will probably do a hysterectomy with ovaries out.
I know this terrifies some women, but I'm at the end of my tether with this to the point that if someone walked in right now and offered to rip my womb and ovaries out with their bare hands, I'd whip my knickers off and say go ahead!
Have a go with some of the suggestions listed but it nothing makes it better, go to your GP and ask to be referred to gynae. If you think you have got PMDD, have a look on Facebook as there are support groups on there. I'm in one and it's reassuring to know that others are going through the same bad stuff as me and we help each other.