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To be annoyed at OH?

5 replies

ftmtb · 03/02/2018 23:22

Think I might just need a moan... Currently 7 months pregnant and had a very stressful time recently, OH Has been out of work so I've been financially supporting us both from a job that really makes me miserable. We both still live with family but I've managed to get money together for a deposit for an apartment, I've got most of the furniture myself and bought everything for baby myself. I've been poorly, had problems with mental health and just feel generally very crap recently :( I babysat for my young nephew last night and whilst there I messaged OH to ask if we could have a nice, relaxing night in together tonight, which he agreed to. However it came to it and he decided to go to his friends for an hour, I never ever have problems with him going to his friends during the week/weekend but tonight we'd agreed to spend it together, he called me needy and told me I was being horrible by wanting him to stay... he went anyway and rolled back in nearly 3 hours later, I'm exhausted from lack of sleep by now and just want to sleep, night ruined SadAIBU or is this pretty shit?

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Mxyzptlk · 03/02/2018 23:25

It is pretty shit.
Of course you were disappointed that he went back on his word about having a nice evening together, that you were looking forward to. Flowers

Merryoldgoat · 03/02/2018 23:28

Is this a one off? Or is he generally not very understanding or supportive? What's he doing about looking for work?

GreenTulips · 03/02/2018 23:30

You have a lot of stress and I'd not be moving until after the baby arrives as you'll get more suppprt at home

RunningOutOfCharge · 03/02/2018 23:36

What's he doing at this friends?

Kingsclerelass · 03/02/2018 23:44

Agree with Green tulips, I wouldn't move myself anywhere isolated until your oh can prove he is loyal and supportive.

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