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TO ABSOLUTLY HATE MY SISTERS BOYFRIEND??

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kittylette · 30/04/2007 10:18

Shes a week over due with their first baby and in the past 4 days shes seen him twice for 5 minutes!!

He sent her a txt 2 days ago saying 'i dont think this is working out'

she went to hospital because of high blood pressure and was monitored for an hour, -he was at college - he comes round to her house 3 hours after he finished college went up to see her for 5 minutes then told her he was going to snooker!! he got pissed out of his head despite the fact she was having pains

she begged him not to go and he told her to 'f*ck off'

His mum keeps saying 'hes just scared'

well my sister id too but shes the one going to have this baby and ulitimatly be responsible for him 24/7!!

If she was giving it back to him it wouldnt be as bad but shes mild as anything and jusy sits in her room crying.

She TXT'd him asking if he would come round to talk and he TXT'd back 'you think im going to f*cking drop everything and come running?? - your making me out to be a prick to your family'

and hes a complete pothead

well DURRR - what else are we gonna think he is??

I was glad when he said it was over - shes better off without him!

but shes young, scared, about to have a baby and shes taken him back today

I nhavent seen him yet but when i do its going to be soooo hard to be civil to him - but i have to if thats her descision to be with him.

I dreamt last night i kicked 7 shades of shit out of him .. pity it was just a dream

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wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 30/04/2007 10:21

wow he sounds like a charmer - not. tbh all you can do is be there for him when he dumps her, which he inevitably will once the reality of the baby etc sets in. and in time she will realize she's better off without him.

Lizzylou · 30/04/2007 10:21

He does sound awful.
Is he very young?
Did they plan the pg? Perhaps it is just getting too much for him, the impending responsibility etc?

But yes, sounds like you are going to be biting through your tongue when you see him!

Hope your Sis is OK.

kittylette · 30/04/2007 10:24

they re both 18 and the baby wasnt planned.

i understand its a huge burden but my sister didnt want this baby at first either, and she only started talking about him when she got to 5 months pregnant, she cant wait for him to come now but getting to that point has been a long journey.

she wont accept hes doing anything wrong, thats the scary thing

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Lizzylou · 30/04/2007 10:27

Was he a "good" boyfriend before the pregnancy?
He sounds like a waste of space, she'd be better off not even thinking about relying on him, then anything he does to get involved will be a bonus.
I bet she's just scared of being on her own, poor thing, it's such a lot to cope with.

She's going to need a good big Sister I think!

kittylette · 30/04/2007 10:30

they'd only been together 6 months and he adored her,

i just wish it would end as i dont see it being a 'forever' thing,

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helenhismadwife · 01/05/2007 21:51

bless her, she doesnt need this at the moment, perhaps she cant deal with them splitting up at the moment, it must be really scary for her. Its possible that when she has her baby she will realise that bf is not that important, and see him for the tosser he is and she can with family support she can do it herself, or maybe the tosser bf will change when he has a baby to think about.

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