DH read my posts and I'm furious!

[Scootergirl]

After a "debate" last night about having more children during which I said something about people on Mumsnet agreeing with me, DH (or just H today!) got on the computer and read my posts "to see what I'd said about him".
I am so cross I can't speak to him.
Any views on whether this is unreasonable or not?

See for me the difference here is that you told him you?d been discussing him, and not just in general, but with regard to quite a sensitive issue. It?s not as if he went looking on mn just to see what you post on here, he went to look following a specific conversation about the things you?d put on here. Can you honestly say that if he told you he?d been discussing you with a random group of people, and that his conversations were all down in black and white for you to read, that you wouldn?t want to know what had been said?

if you don't want him to read what you have typed, log out when you are finished, clear your history and don't talk about MN!!

IMO, yes you are being unreasonable. It is a public place and he could have read your posts without telling you.

I suppose you're right, wannabe. I would want to know what had been said but I thought I'd told him during our discussion about it.
And "catch me out" was obviously the wrong phrase to use... it's nothing like that complicated for us, it really isn't. I guess he's alright really