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...to tell my neighbours they are LOUD

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butternutmosh · 28/01/2018 19:30

Hi MN
Tricky situation this. Hope someone can offer some support or guidance!
I lived in a rental property for a few years & one of my neighbours was a nightmare. Constant parties/dealing drugs etc. The constant noise really affected me & the sleep deprivation was horrific.
I moved house recently & the peace & quiet was initially blissful until a few weeks in where two nights in a row one lot of neighbours who I have met & said hello to several times were pretty loud (music/shouting etc) then all went quiet til last Friday when there was a party with loud screaming & banging til around 1am. I felt so anxious & upset but didn't ask them to be quiet.
Nor have I mentioned it.
I don't want to be the new neighbour who starts complaining straight away but was thinking of mentioning his 'noise sure dos travel' or something.
It's London. I know it's meant to be noisy but I get up so early & value my sleep....
It's just me & my child & i'm worried we might end up in the same situation again.
AIBU to say something?
Should I invite them over for drinks & get to know them first before saying something?
WWYD?
Thanks for reading Confused

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missymayhemsmum · 28/01/2018 22:25

Difficult one.
If it was domestic noise they might be unaware of I'd have a word,but this is something different. You could try asking was everyone alright the other night, as the banging and screaming kept you awake, you were worried that someone was hurt?

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