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To not seize the day

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Midge1978 · 27/01/2018 23:17

Social media seem to be filled with reposted advice originally posted by someone who has faced a big life event such as terminal illness. The advice is always very worthy - live each moment as if it's your last, love everyone, go for your dreams, don't sweat the small stuff etc. and it all sounds brilliant and true - so why can't I?!

No matter how many of these uplifting advice-for-lifes I read, I know that the only marathon I will ever get round to is a box set marathon, I will still moan about mil and the bitch at work and do just about enough work next week to make sure I'm paid rather than fired. I will continue to fret about the size of my arse and whether everyone secretly loathes me. So what can't I get into the seize the day mentality? Do you have to face the worst before you can really adopt that viewpoint wholeheartedly? Genuine question.

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toomanycreambuns · 27/01/2018 23:20

Because you're normal?

Comparison is the thief of joy and all that...

mumpoints · 27/01/2018 23:23

I don't think you have to face the worse, but maybe have some kind of "I've got to get out of the rut" moment.

But that is the reason that people post these things, stick them on the mirror or computer screen, to keep them motivated, or they just drop back into the rut like everyone else... until reminded again.

AlexanderHamilton · 27/01/2018 23:23

My version of Siezing the Day is to sit down at home & watch Newsies on Broadway HD!

Midge1978 · 28/01/2018 09:49

Ha like it!

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user1472333009 · 28/01/2018 09:59

How can we live every day like it's our last when we have jobs to do, bills to pay etc
I've told my family I love them all but can't be continually be nice as it's hard work & I'm not much of a hugger.
I've travelled, I've run a few marathons I exercise a lot but my.job is as boring as hell.
I did have a near death but it hasn't changed me too much.
The one thing I'm aiming for this year is to change my mind set, to try to stop caring what people think of me, to fully be me & not care. It's flipping hard!

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