To want to let go...

[lostmyslippers]

I'm planning on having a big clear out...the past few years have really taken it out of me and I want to get rid of stuff that i don't need and that I associate the past with. I've got a stack of cards from birthdays and other events given to me by family who have passed away. I love them very much but keep thinking I need to make space...maybe for the future? I don't want to throw them out but just not sure what their use is. I never go through them as it just upsets me...they are in the back of the cupboard in a bag so not really taking up that much space...I keep thinking maybe I will regret it later if I do throw them out?

That's the kind of very personal item that you can't replace later on if you change your mind. Its also the kind of keepsake that future generations might enjoy.
Invest in a box and put them away, and carry on with your clear out.

Clear them out. It doesn't mean you are disrespecting the memory of loved ones; if you don't look through them then they are just taking up space. Allow yourself to let go.

Pop them in a nice box and stick a note on the top with a date on. 12 months time, longer or shorter, just pick a date. Put that date on your calendar and when it comes around, make a decision.

I have quite a few sentimental cards, drawings etc. I'm learning to let go a little at a time, I'm taking photos of everything I put in for recycling, so that I still have the memory and can share it with others without turning in to a hoarder (no joke).

Hope you find the peace you need

How sentimental are they? If they are literally just cards signed ‘To lostmyslippers, Happy Birthday, love familymember’ I wouldn’t keep them but I might keep any which contained a more personal message.

Maybe just choose your favourite one or two cards per sender to keep. You could take photos of the rest.