My boyfriend hit a landmark birthday recently. Initially he didn't want to do anything much but at my suggestion he's organised a celebration tomorrow night. It's snowballed so that now there are a lot of people coming, some of them are travelling from quite far away and it's seems like it's going to be big.
I'd already booked a hotel for Saturday for us. It's a train ride away and is very expensive. Now that his party has become bigger than expected, I think I should cancel hotel and go another time so that he can enjoy the party without worrying about us travelling on Saturday with hangovers or not enjoying ourselves because we're exhausted.
The thing is, he doesn't want me to cancel. He says he'll be fine and he doesn't want to get that drunk anyway. But it's his birthday, lots of people are coming, I imagine things will go on late and neither of us will want to travel.
We've already had a lot of back and forth about it and he's holding out. AIBU to keep trying to make him see sense or should I just give up?