So.... this is slightly long but here it goes, my DH is Romanian and has lived over here for more than 10 years and we got together 3 years ago and now we have a baby who is at this point 12 weeks old. Last year his mum passed away and that left his dad alone over in Romania, now we invited him over for Christmas as thought it would be lovely to have him here and it would be less lonely for him, my DH sister also came over from Holland and stayed 2 weeks, she went home and he is staying until the 31st Jan, which makes it 6 weeks. He is the most lazy and rude man I have ever known, he doesn't speak English so waits to slag me off when my DH gets home he pays nothing towards anything in the home we have spent around £600 extra since he got here and we only on my DH wage and abit extra for maternity pay is is so bad to think he should be contributing something considering he sees his son Work 60 hour weeks. I do all the cooking, cleaning, tidying etc and looking after littlen while he sits on the couch on his phone!!! My DH has had enough too as he doesn't like how I am being treated and how he treats our home and my son who he is also rude to, want to ask my DH to ask him for some money before he goes home??