Glad I’m not the only one. I really don’t think my DCs are overly rough with toys, at least not compared to some of their friends, but when you have a jumbo jet that’s not the kind of thing that lends itself to tabletop play — they want to fly it, of course. In desperation I have super-glued the wheels and wings on and that works for a while but it’s hard to find super glue for smooth plastic.
As far as what my 8-year-old plays with, definitely LEGO (but primarily for the building, as it is indeed crap for actually play), remote control cars, Snap Circuits, Crazy Forts (along with various fort-building materials from around the house), marble run, and board games are all popular, but most of the time when he’s in the house he can be found either reading a book or “creating” things with paper, markers, scissors, glue, string, loo roll tubes, etc. I think his favorite Christmas gift was his own sellotape dispenser! He’s also very into sport and spends a lot of time running around with the other kids on our road or playing football in the garden. I can feel the pull toward screens get stronger and stronger but I’m trying to keep it limited as long as possible, and when he does have screen time he often just wants to email his grandparents, write things on Word and play with the fonts and colors, or do things like Scratch (coding), Minecraft (in offline mode), and make stop animation films with Stikbots.
My 5-year-old loves Playmobil in theory but gets very frustrated with the pieces. He tends to use the Playmobil people (empty heads and all) but the cars, boats, and plane we have are just too frustrating for him.