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To ask how you get your baby to nap if you have a toddler too?

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MardyMarie · 24/01/2018 21:50

When my middle child was a baby, my eldest would sit and colour with me, do puzzles, play with figures, read stories ect while baby napped. Now number three is here and DC2 is like a whole different entity to her sister and getting baby to nap without disruption is proving incredibly difficult.

I try to time it so baby falls asleep on the way back from the school run and he usually gets an hour then. After that it's 20 mins at a time at best because his sister will leap, scream (happily), bang around, decide to kiss him. I think he'd sleep better out of my arms so she couldn't disrupt him as much but besides t.v., I don't know what to do with her while I'm trying to get him to nap and I don't particularly want the t.v. on every few hours when he needs a nap.

He won't tolerate the sling in the house but will happily sleep in it outside. The problem is that the weather obviously isn't ideal for that right now; particularly as toddler really feels the cold and so doesn't last long outside. Today all he had was an hour this morning, two twenty mins naps then 45 mins after school. He was absolutely shattered by bedtime which will no doubt mean he's unsettled tonight.

If you have a similar age gap, how do you get your baby to nap indoors?

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toolonglurking · 25/01/2018 07:33

I'm waiting for my second to arrive, but my plan is to put the toddler in waterproofs and layers and take him outside to run around while the baby sleeps in the sling or pram. I know the weather isn't great but it's you have the right kit it's fine.

fizzicles · 25/01/2018 07:36

With number 3 we ended up using a lot of TV time to be honest

Pleasedontdrawonyoursister · 25/01/2018 07:43

White noise was a godsend! I would put tv in while getting baby to sleep upstairs, then bung on the white noise and then me and toddler could do whatever we wanted! DD2 sleeps through anything and I’m sure it’s because we were so noisy when she was a baby. I don’t see how it could work if the baby is asleep in your arms/sling though, not for every nap x

Iliketeabagging · 25/01/2018 07:55

"I think he'd sleep better out of my arms"
You know the answer already ...

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