After opinions on two counts really.
During a discussion about someone close to me going up before the beat because his very troublemaking ex P got drunk and tried to grab his phone. He tried to grab it back and she called cops saying he's assaulted her. She has form for horrific behaviour, drinking, locking DDs in their room so she can shag her boyfriend, the list goes on and on. SS are involved and I think the children are on verge of being taken away. It's very sad. She has also told her 11 year old DS that she was raped while drunk (I do not know about this). My comment on this issue was that she shouldn't be discussing this sort of thing with children. DH's response was "well it's well known that women do this all the time about their lives and divorces. They confide in their children. It's a proven fact ". I was a bit 
and said "That's a bit of a generalisation don't you think?" His response was "Well you've agreed with me about it every time I've said it and I've told you loads of times." (Actually no, he hasn't said it loads and no I haven't agreed; he's gaslighting me but that's another story....).
AIBU to ask if he is right or is he just being a tw*t? And in your opinions/experience does this happen with "most" women? I don't DH's exW did that with their then 9 year old DD...showed her emails, solicitor's letters, confided in her and used her as a crutch, which was not at all right. So I guess in his (one time) experience it has happened but it felt wrong and almost like he was sneaking in a little dig (we have issues but I personally have never ever slagged DH off to the children or discussed anything parenting-wise with them).