NC for this as it could be very outing. I was asked to be a bridesmaid for my friend who gets married in 2020. She organised everything early on and asked me and I was honoured, I've been asked to be bridesmaid a few times before and loved it.
I've recently been on mat leave (now back at work) and she wasn't too happy with me during this time because we didn't see enough of each other (about once every 2 weeks which I thought was ok) we discussed it, apologies were made and all was fine. Since then every time I see her all seems fine but she never ever texts, phones or anything to me first! I always have to message her and then I maybe get 1 or 2 texts back then that's it. She seems frustrated about my baby even though she has older children so has been through it, it's like she can't understand why I can't stop everything to see her or can't do evenings etc (wants us to come to their house because of their kids but won't come to ours??) I've tried to discuss bridesmaid stuff but she seems disinterested.
I now feel like she doesn't want me to be her bridesmaid anymore and frankly I don't really feel like it either unless something changes,I really feel like she's not the friend she once was and isn't that fussed on me! BUT I have no idea if I've got the wrong end of the stick and I'm seeing her on Friday and I don't know what to do. Help!