Hi everyone, im feeling a bit annoyed maybe someone can make me see this another way.
Best friend called me this morning and asked what i was up to said i had not long been up but would be getting myself and dd sorted to go and collect my car thats just been fixed and then id head over to hers for afternoon as she mentioned she was broke so didnt have money to do anything so i said okay il bring dd over so the kids can play. My dh also offered her to come over and have a bottle of wine tonight while my dd is in bed and her oh watches their children ans my dh would also leave £10 for her to ger a taxi home after. We hadnt decided on this evening's plans but had left it that once i had collected my car i would be over.
I collected my car and usually i would head straight over but i decided to call her to ask it she wanted me to pick anything up on the way and she informs me her sister had shown up and lent her money to go out for lunch so they were actually already on their way to the resturaunt. I get on with her sister but she can be really odd at times and certinly likes to do things to cause trouble. Best friend said we wont be that long and sounded a little to me like she was expecting me to wait outside hers for them all to her back. I told her i wouldn't wait around and i was going home with dd as its not fair for her to have to sit around in the car i live the other end of a busy city so traffic on a saturday is crazy.
Im annoyed because had i not called i would of been left stood on the door step witb a 18 month old surely a quick text to say plans had changed wouldn't of hurt but i know the reason the text didnt come as then my best friend would of felt she had to invite me and her sister can't stand kids although she has a 13 year old and my best friends children are 10 and 4 the 10 year old has asd so not sure why one more fairly well behaved child would hurt the 4 year old can be incredibly naughty if she wants to be.
Put it this way she can shove her bottle of wine up her ass tonight im so pissed off.