Not sure how to word the AIBU.
My mum lent me a significant amount of money. I hated borrowing it, really had nowhere else to turn.
She is generous with presents but borrowing/lending is a different matter and I felt really embarrassed asking. Of course that sounds so ungrateful when she was kind enough to give it without hesitation.
Shortly after we had a fairly significant disagreement. Afterwards she said she thought I should be nicer to her as she lent me money.
She has since offered me money for other things but I don't feel ok now about it.
AIBU to think if you lend money it's really poor form to bring it up in that context? Or is it natural that she should think/say what she did given that she had been kind to lend it?
Bracing myself for robust AIBU opinions.