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Horseriding in pregnancy?

92 replies

namechange565555 · 16/01/2018 14:50

My sister is expecting her first child and is about 4 months pregnant. She is very into horses and works with them, her employer still doesn't know she is expecting.

She announced the pregnancy a few weeks ago, and I have been worrying since. She fell off a horse (not seriously) about a month ago (we didn't know about the pregnancy then), she intends on riding until she "can't fit on the horse".

Surely this is quite dangerous? Given the high risk of a fall/being kicked plus the chances of infections when cleaning out the stables? She thinks I am being dramatic but I can't see why you'd wwant to take the gamble vs a few months off the riding atleast.

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Winosaurus · 16/01/2018 14:53

Not just that but the constant rigorous bouncing up and down wouldn’t be good for the baby surely?
It’s definitely not a good idea Confused

Kidssendingmenuts · 16/01/2018 14:54

I wouldn't continue riding but mucking out and tending to the horse would be fine.

Thehairthebod · 16/01/2018 14:55

I am very much of the 'carry on as you were during pregnancy' school of thought. But horse riding? No. Way too many risks.

MagicFajita · 16/01/2018 14:55

You're not being dramatic op , as much as your sister loves horses she does need to be careful.

Winegumaddict · 16/01/2018 14:56

It's up to her. I rode all the way through both of my pregnancies until week 37 with my first and 35 with my second. I don't work with horses but I know my boy well. It was always at my own risk but I chose to take that risk.

Frouby · 16/01/2018 14:57

Depends on the horse and jockey and what the mother wants to do.

Absolutely no ones business but hers and maybe her employers when they are aware of the pregnancy.

UterusUterusGhali · 16/01/2018 14:58

In early pregnancy the baby is pretty well protected.

I'd maybe mention perineal massage though as riders often have perineums of steel. Grin It can be a bit of an issue.

Essentially it's her choice. I met a lady yesterday who'd been riding until 38 weeks. Horsewomen tend to be quite no-nonsense ime

bemusedSpectator · 16/01/2018 14:58

Poor horse. They weren't designed to be ridden let alone by '2' people.

Are there really high risks of infections cleaning stables?

BarbarianMum · 16/01/2018 14:59

I was advised that horse-riding and scuba diving were the only activities to be avoided in pregnancy, but ultimately its her body and her baby.

randomsabreuse · 16/01/2018 14:59

It's up to her. I rode (weekly) until getting off became a problem (approx 14 weeks), my instructor rode much later as she could get off easily by swinging her leg over the front of the saddle.

Mucking out isn't a real risk of infection although basic hand hygiene is a good idea.

raspberrysuicide · 16/01/2018 15:00

Loads of people ride when they are pregnant. It's fine.
My friend rode up until the week before she gave birth.

Youngmystery · 16/01/2018 15:00

I wouldn't ride my horse, he's way too bouncy being a warmblood plus he's a bit stupid and spooky, also blaming the wb there.

But a safe horse I trusted I would for leisurely stuff like hacks, with other people of course just incase. Wouldnt do jumping or competing, but a hack now and again won't do any harm.

It sounds like though she's a yard rider and exercises different horses each day. That I probably wouldn't do as most likely they are either problem or competition horses, both of which can have their moments.

etap · 16/01/2018 15:04

Last thing I'd want is a saddle banging against my foof

Greyhorses · 16/01/2018 15:05

I wouldn’t ride my horses as they are unpredictable but I did still muck out etc.

If I got pregnant again I probably wouldn’t be going into the field with them too much as the risk of getting kicked or squashed is high with two youngsters!

peachgreen · 16/01/2018 15:18

It's her body and her decision.

Frillyhorseyknickers · 16/01/2018 15:21

I rode all six on mine (eventers and hunters) until 20weeks and competed a BE novice at 14 weeks, you do what feels right for you. She needs to tell her employer from an insurance POV.

Blobby10 · 16/01/2018 15:25

I rode with my first baby til I was 24 weeks - gentle hacks out and schooling in an outdoor arena - and only stopped because I had a big bump and it kept hitting the front of the saddle. I was used to riding 5 or 6 mornings a week at that point.

I know other people who stopped riding as soon as they got the positive test, others who rode (but with admittedly nice, neat, tidy and small bumps!) rode until 3-4 weeks before birth. All had been riding 5-6 days a week up until then

My midwife was very much a carry on as you were about riding whilst other mums-to-be were horrified with me, as was the midwife at the hospital when we went to look round!

its really up to your sister - her body, her horse, her baby, her decision.

FlakeBook · 16/01/2018 15:26

In the first trimester the baby is well down in the pelvis and protected by the pelvic bones.

Beyond that it's up to your sister to assess the risk.

bemusedSpectator · 16/01/2018 15:28

@peachgreen

Shame you don't extend the same courtesy to the horse.

Ladyformation · 16/01/2018 15:32

Lots of people ride until late in pregnancy, as evidenced by this thread. She will be fine.

Depending on what she's riding there's a pretty low risk of a fall. There's probably a very low risk of a kick (I've been properly kicked once in over 20 years of variously riding/owning/working with horses). I've also never heard of anyone getting an infection from mucking out... She won't be "bouncing around" and the saddle definitely won't be "banging against her foof", promise!

Pengggwn · 16/01/2018 15:34

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Tempi23 · 16/01/2018 15:35

bemusedSpectator horses are domesticated animals, they have been bred selectively over thousands of years to be suitable for riding. And mine thoroughly enjoys being ridden, thank you very much.

Haffiana · 16/01/2018 15:39

Yep, I rode both a horse and my motorbike throughout both my pregnancies. I am a bit Hmm about some of these responses.

Did everyone who lived in London move out during pregnancy because of the - statistically far, far higher - risk of being hit by a car during pregnancy?

bemusedSpectator · 16/01/2018 15:41

They haven't. They don't. Saddles try to compensate for having a fat lump bouncing up and down on their spines but they can't completely negate the damage but hey, tell yourself whatever gives you peace. They're only animals.

I kid myself when eating cheap sausages or Finders pies or selectively breeding dogs so that they can't breathe correctly or pop ahip every time they fart enegetically.

peachgreen · 16/01/2018 15:41

@bemusedSpectator I'm afraid you're spoiling for a fight with the wrong person - I've never ridden a horse in my life and don't intend to, so you'll not get an impassioned defence of horse riding out of me. Just don't think anyone other than a pregnant woman and her medical team have any say in what she can and can't do in pregnancy.