Should I say anything?

[Lilmis]

Hi to all the mums reading. Need some Advice coz I need a third opinion. My brain may just be leading me astray 🤣

My cousin invited a guests to his house that I have bad blood with. Well more like they have bad blood with me the way I was slandered by this individual. It's was actually quite bad what this individual said and did. My cousin isn't aware of it but his wife was. And when they invited this person, it was only coz they have met at other ppls parties and exchanged hi and bye. I feel a bit betrayed. Coz of this individual I was socially removed from a certain friends circle due to their blood relation with them.

Ladies this person physically hurt me in my pregnancy and let me tell u they even had the nerve to call the cops on me and if that was not enough, 6 months down the line they even had made an call to S.S making it look like I was a abusing my own kids.

I feel like I should say something to my cousin but wonder if it's any of my business. The husband will say that it's his dinner, he can invite who he likes.

And words of wisdom for me. Shall I just let it go and be prepared to keep seeing them at my cousin's?

I wouldn’t say anything if your cousin isn’t at risk but I wouldn’t go to their house when this person was likely to be there either

If someone assaulted you while pregnant I’d expect you to say that First. Did you go to the Police about it? I would decline the invitation and explain that you don’t want to be in the company of X. I wouldn’t explain why unless asked.

Bit confused. Are you invited to dinner at your cousins house and these people will be there? Surely your cousin is aware of what’s going on if you’ve been assaulted etc? If not invited, tell cousin to keep you of the agenda.

I didn't know they were going to be there and was taken a back slightly when I saw them. I do have to put up with this individual at other ppls dinners. I guess that feels different as it isn't family and this is.

I didn't report it to the cops at the time as I let it go due to be in the same friends circle and this person has kids of their own and I didn't want to screw that up. But I got screwed up coz they called the cops on me and told the cops a load of lies about me.

Just to clarify we were invited to the same dinner.