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Domestiv Violence

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skippykips · 14/01/2018 18:57

Posting here for traffic.
I know I will be flamed for this. But if this just helps one person then I will be happy.
Somebody sent this to me. I am out if my violent relationship. I am now happy in a new relationship and very safe.
I am sorry if this offends anybody. I really am. I just want awareness and hopefully to trigger at least one person to seek help and get out!
Mn if against rules feel free to delete.

Got Flowers Today

I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night. He said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he was sorry and didn't mean the things he said. Because I got flowers today.

I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day. Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. It wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day. Last night, he beat me up again. And it was much worse than all other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I' m afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night he finally killed me. He beat me to death.

If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today.

This poem is dedicated to all the victims and survivors of Domestic Violence.

You ask, why didn't she leave?

I ask, why did he hit?

Author: Paulette Kelly

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skippykips · 14/01/2018 18:58

Also, sorry for typos!

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brokenways · 14/01/2018 19:04

Not sure why you’ll be flamed? I know what you’re trying to say

skippykips · 14/01/2018 19:06

Some people may say its harsh. In fact when I was sent this poem I told the sender to Eff off and mind her iwn business.
Now I am free I realise I owe her my life!

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