I have been living with my now three year old at my parents home since my ex and I split 16mths ago. He physically assaulted me causing me to leave in the end, he then harassed myself and my family for several months until the police became involved and he had to stop. He sees his son every other weekend, and Skype twice each week by court order. Skype has never really worked, being so young our son ends the call after only a few minutes. My ex blames me and other family members for this. Other family members of his often become involved, talking disparagingly of me. Weekend pickups/drop off rarely go smoothly. My ex parks at the end of our drive and sends a family member/third party to the door. They are rude, abusive and we're often told that child is crying because they've had such a good time they don't want to come home/leave them. My parents have had to replace doorbells and knocker that have been broken from misuse. At first my mother did hand over, but I have been facilitating myself for sometime now. I asked in email if my ex would do the same, as what is going on at the front door is upsetting our son. I tried to reason that it could only be a good thing for our son if we tried to get on as co parents. He has refused. I also suggested we stop Skype, as it wasn't working and that he see his son for a few hours midweek. Again he refused. My ex knows there is nothing I can do, and has told me in email, if I don't like the arrangement take him back to court. I really don't have the money to take him back to court, and would rather not go to court anyway. Oh and just as a foot note, my ex is self employed, has a four bed house, runs two large cars, has several 5*holidays each year and pays £30pw through the CMS. I don't know what to do next. Any advice would be gratefully received.