Dare I say it but people who have been brought up in single parent households seem less inclined to want this for their own child so will abort /take MAP. This is the feel I get from the students I teach and not a judgement on any single parents
I think this is true also. Me and dp split when ds was still a baby. Even though I met dp not long after, and ds had always been 50/50 between us.
When he started to have sex with his gf after a year of them being together, (he discussed it with me before they did), she went on the pill and they use condoms.
He doesn't want to be a young dad, and although he was lucky in both his parents still managed to go to uni on time, get degrees and good jobs, it's not what he wants.
We were taking the other night actually and I asked what he would do if by some chance she did fall pregnant, and he said they wouldn't keep it. Because they would not want that struggle in life for them or for their child, and i would fully support that.
He also knows that if by some chance she's been unwell, maybe a vomiting bug, and they did have sex without a condom (he says highly unlikely) m, that I will take them for the MAP the next day.