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SgtScrathpost · 11/01/2018 15:11

Hi,

I have a bit of dilemma that I would like some advice on. Its happy one at that but nonetheless one that whatever decision I make will be a long term one. Here goes:

I work for a company that is owner by a much bigger company and I have applied for and been offered a role in the much bigger company, yay!

Theres very little in my area for my profession and I don’t have much appetite to uproot DW and DC, neither for spending 3-4 hours in a car every day so these opportunities don’t come up every day.

Now I’ve just learned that there will be no salary increase in the new role, don’t accept, madness I hear you say. Now the parent company has more A/L, a better pension and it will be home based so a few residual benefits, ultimately the career prospects are better longer term in the parent company as I’m pretty much in one-in-one out territory in my current company.

Now I know when I try to leave there will more than likely be a reasonable retention offer put on the table (way this company works they only throw money around when you are leaving). But the thing is I am sick of the fucking place. DW cannot currently work due to disability (as an aside we hope it will improve in time with the right treatment) and the DWP vultures keep circling to take her money and support away, managed to keep one benefit last year and currently defending another so any wage rise is tempting as it provides some insulation against if/when the inevitable happens.

Consensus with DW and some colleagues who already moved over is do it, take the job its tons better in the parent company. I know money isn’t everything but I can’t help thinking I’m going to be swayed by short term gain.

Has anyone made a choice of more money bad job versus taking a good career move with no immediate gain and how did it pan out?

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etap · 11/01/2018 15:15

Sometimes emotional satisfaction outstrips material gain. Doesn't sound like you'll be throwing anyone under the bus or struggling to make ends meet with a change. and who knows where it will lead... as opposed to what sounds like stagnation? Only live once. Go for it, stay happy!

Allthebestnamesareused · 11/01/2018 15:21

DH was a highly paid salaried partner in a law firm. When made up to equity partner he in effect took a pay cut for 2-3 years as he went in on a lockstep basis. However long term it has paid back massively.

Go for the short term pain for long term gain!

ShotsFired · 11/01/2018 15:32

So it's same money but better job with better benefits?

Sometimes the non-financial bens are the most valuable.

Take it and don't look back.

SgtScrathpost · 11/01/2018 15:43

Thank you for the reponses and for sharing your experiences, I think I need to take it and not be tempted to snatch retention off the table.

Sorry I didn't elaborate on the roles. I am a techie, current situation is I'm spread too thin and covering a lot of different things due to the "specialist" area I cover. This basically means stuff doesn't get done to the level I would like it to be done, projects are chaotic and rushed.

New role is to be a subject matter expert in a particular area, do a specific role and do it bloody well. They don't have exact role mappings between the two companies but its a fairly similar level of seniority, just once I'm on the Mothership its a global org with 100ks of employees.

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KatharinaRosalie · 11/01/2018 15:45

Take the new job. Moneyisn't everything if you're bored and sick of the current role.

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