To still be quietly fuming when a woman assumes my dd's chocolate bar is her dinner in sainsburys??

[Hillls]

I went to Sainsburys today to do my shopping, my dd has a bar of their chocoalte as its the only free from chocolate she can eat due to her allergies. We were in the car park putting our shopping in the boot when a woman walks past and says to my dd? 'Is that your dinner' she walked off before I had chance to answer her, I am still cross with this woman, should I just laugh it off? She was not joking either!

My dd only has one bar of chocolate a week, I dont allow sweets or chocolate normally.

I wouldn't worry about it. It is no where near as bad as when my dd had a flare up of eczema on her face. We went into the local supermarket where there was a professional photography selling point. The sales woman greeted me and was about to give me the sales pitch but she saw dd and just turned away. I felt like punching her.

bambi how AWFUL! What a cow.

i say the pinching thing about my own children if they'r going off and someone says 'wahts wrong with you then' i turn round and say 'well iv been pinching him/her when you're not looking, didn't you realise?'

hillls try not to bother too much, you know the truth!

Just today i was trying to get my dd aged 2 and in the middle of a terrible 2's tantrum to get into her pushchair as we were going to cross the road and she was refusing to hold hands.
A stranger says "OH what an EVIL mummy" but luckily for her she smiled as she said it and she was elderly.
Anyone saying that without knowing me would get a piece of my mind if they did not mean it in jest.
AB

ok i must jump in before the strangers say it because i say that stuff to the strangers, maybe its a defence mechanism...hmmm

Hills just think

" you are mad you unhinged woman" and msile

yes she was rather up her own arse if I may say, I just wish I'd been quicker instead of having my head upsideown in the boot of my car. Grrrrr

Quite[shocked] by some of the things said to people, especially the one about the photographer!!!!

bambira - thats so awful - did you complain?

I'd have answered no it's her breakfast

Just ignore it. She probably has never had a child of her own. I once had a woman tell me she was going to call the police because I was letting my dc (4 and 6) ride on the escalator without holding their hands. She said it was tantamount to child abuse! (I did contemplate responding that the only child abuse happening was her scaring my children with her severly plastic surgeried face!!!!....)

I think she was just having a joke with you - I actually think she was just being friendly. Sorry, don't mean to sound rude, but thats mad - whats the problem?

I thought you meant the woman ate your DD's chocolate!

i think none of us except hills were there, and if she doesn't think the woman was joking, its fair to assume that she didn't come across that way

but hills, fgs, don't worry what a stranger thinks! you can't parent according to what others think anyway.

I get annoyed by comments like that. And I fume about them for days ..... until finally I get some persepective and forget all about it.

think you should return to the carpark ,same time next week,hunt thei evil comment throwing bitch down and give her a good slapping!