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To tell my “friend” I don’t five a feck..

36 replies

hattiesmumm · 07/01/2018 09:49

I had a baby 18 months Ago, made a really good friend. She was round nearly every day, me and my partner took her out a lot etc. Her baby was the same age as Mine. We would have her and her husband over for dinner a lot etc.

Anyway, last year I was diagnosed with PND and she went back to work part time in July. As soon as she went back work, I hardly heard from her unless she needed something. She made a lot of young friends at work and spend most weekends going out for drinks after work/tAke always with these 19/20 year olds. I messaged her telling her I felt used and not good enough anymore. I had made her god parent in June. She blew off at me and told me I was a bitch etc. She sent a friend round to my house “to have words” while I was home alone with my daughter. I was terrified.

Anyway fast forward to now. She’s left her husband for a younger lad, “never felt like this before, I’m so in love him etc”. The guy has just been sent to prison for 2 years and now she’s constantly texting me how depressed she is, how lonely she is, how she feels like he’s died...

I reallly don’t care. She says she hasn’t heard from her other friends.. it’s like I’m being used all over again!!

I’ve blocked her on Facebook and Instagram but she turns up at my house 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Not once has she asked me how I am.

OP posts:
pollythedolly · 07/01/2018 11:53

Toxic bitch. Fuck off should suffice

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 07/01/2018 12:48

Hattie, anyone who sends a thug round to give you the hard word, isn't worth spitting on, should they be on fire.

BulletFox · 07/01/2018 12:50

She sounds horrible.

Enjoy your baby and protect yourself from her.

BigBaboonBum · 07/01/2018 12:54

I’d tell her to fuck right off, call the police if she harasses you

Jozxyqk · 07/01/2018 12:57

"How about you call X, you know, who came round for that little chat with me when things were a bit difficult between us. What's that? Still can't get hold of her? I'm ever so sorry about that. I'm a bit busy right now - I'm expecting some friends over shortly, must go." And gently close the door...

pollythedolly · 07/01/2018 13:59

Hattie, anyone who sends a thug round to give you the hard word, isn't worth spitting on, should they be on fire.

No, but put out with a spade.

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 07/01/2018 14:18

😂⭐️

Orchidiona · 07/01/2018 14:22

Dont give her attention,she isnt a friend

Bumsnetnetbums · 07/01/2018 14:22

Block and dont look black

peppapigwouldmakelovelyrashers · 07/01/2018 14:24

You should probably not call people really good friends when you only knew them for about five minutes. It's all a bit east endery.

Bumsnetnetbums · 07/01/2018 16:52

Peppa thats out of order.
We think the best of people. There was no reason to doubt her friend

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