Relationshios and midlife crisis

[Brighteyes27]

Aibu - DH 52 went out with some lads/men from an old sports team tonight. He sees them about two or three times a year. He usually comes home just before or just after midnight whilst some of the younger ones stay out much later. I know he has definitely gone out with them but can’t sleep and received this text about 11:30pm ‘Goin well may be a bit later than expected’. It doesn’t sound like him at all or the last part doesn’t and no x. He’s still not home and it’s after 2am I am worried he is safe and ok and also worried he has met a woman as I have been grumpy lately and have gained weight. Tomorrow will be a write off AIBU to feel like this been married 17 years. When I go out without him which isn’t often I go out at 4pm or 6pm and am home by 10pm. We rarely go out together as no family support.

Hopefully I will hear a taxi or his key in the door by 2:30 or I will be really concerned. We haven’t been out together on our own for months (had DC late in life and not quite sensible enough or old enough to leave).

I would have texted or rung well before now to check up on him make sure he was OK. Give him a ring, say you're worried.

What are you going to do if you've heard nothing by 2:30am?

Thanks all I sent short text right after posting this just saying hope your ok? He came home at 2:28. Said he got taxi right after I texted. It all sounded ok they were in a bar which has a late license. Apparently he was the 2nd to leave and he stayed longer as he was enjoying it and they had made fun of the person who left first so he stayed a bit longer.

Ah, the old make you feel stupid because I drink and so should you ploy. Pah. Hope your DH realises how worried you were for his saving face. X