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.. to take the Christmas tree down?

49 replies

jarviscockerslover · 28/12/2017 06:29

I live in a tiny villa and it was taking up a lot of space. Christmas is over the trees been up for two weeks now am I being unreasonable to take it down? My partner thinks I ought to wait till New Year but to me Christmas is finished decorations can go!!

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Cosmic123 · 28/12/2017 06:52

No way! I want to take mine down yesterday but didn't have time. Actually I would happily have taken it down on Boxing Day (I hate Christmas) but my daughter really enjoys Christmas so I couldn't bring myself to. I took the cards down yesterday. My favourite thing about Christmas and new year is Jan 1st when it's all over! Grin

Cosmic123 · 28/12/2017 06:53

**wanted

Smilingthru · 28/12/2017 06:53

Took my down yesterday! DD got so many presents that I needed the space to sort it all out! House is back to normal now and it's bliss!

MsHopey · 28/12/2017 06:55

Mine came down on the night of Christmas day. I live in a bedsit and really didn't have the room for it, if your sick of it, take it down.

CloseToTheBone · 28/12/2017 06:56

Traditionally, it should stay up until 12th Night, when all the decs should come down, or bad luck ensues. Personally, I'd say get rid of the damn thing as soon as you wish. It's your house.

LEMtheoriginal · 28/12/2017 06:59

There has been a thread going on this since Xmas day. I'd love to take my tree down but my dd would be upset

Pseudousername · 28/12/2017 07:00

Ours came down yesterday. Tradition shmition - not interested in any of that old cobblers. Take it down whenever you want.

BeerBaby · 28/12/2017 07:01

Ours is coming down today. Pine needles everywhere and the maintenance is becoming a PITA. Other decs will stay up till new year.

juliesaway · 28/12/2017 07:01

YABU. You must wait until 6 Jan.

jarviscockerslover · 28/12/2017 07:02

Glad I'm not the only one! It was very satisfying stuffing it back in its box and chucking it back in the attic. Cards in the recycling bin next..,

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juliesaway · 28/12/2017 07:03

It’s only the 4th day of Christmas! You’re all miserable and not celebrating Christmas properly!

earlylifecrisis · 28/12/2017 07:03

I'm desperate to take mine down but DH objects! Christmas is over!

Lgimat · 28/12/2017 07:05

Mine came down 26th I was desperate for the space back.

Ninjakittysmells · 28/12/2017 07:07

I did a deal with DS on Boxing Day. He could have cake for breakfast if I could take down the Christmas tree..... we shook on it, and both are happy!

That said, he does now keep saying to me things like “mummy, I’ll do you a deal. I can have cake and I’ll let you tidy up again?!” So I’ve probably fucked up longer term here!

fizzytonicplease · 28/12/2017 07:09

Mine came down yesterday as i needed to get the house back into order with all the toys, it had been up since the 2nd.
I do normally wait and take it down on new years eve morning as i like to wake up new years day with it all done, but we are away for new year.

juliesaway · 28/12/2017 07:22

Christmas isn’t over , it’s barely a third of the way through !

cherrycola2004 · 28/12/2017 07:22

Mine came down yesterday and most of the decorations

Abc12333333 · 28/12/2017 07:23

I cannot wait to take mine down. Yanbu!

jarviscockerslover · 28/12/2017 07:45

Juliesaway- intrigued as to what you consider Christmas period tone if we are only 1/3 of the way through?!

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Allthetuppences · 28/12/2017 07:52

Just do it. The squash and a squeeze mandatory recreation is over.

juliesaway · 28/12/2017 08:04

Christmas lasts from 25 December to 6 Jan.

whatsnormal · 28/12/2017 08:06

Kids went to inlaws with their dad for xmas this year we had been together over 20 years and recently separated, I was invited but declined as youngest having a hard time thinking we would be getting back together and I wanted to keep the lines straight As so to say, I explained this to my older two children (13 & 17) who completely understood and have seen their younger sibling struggling,
My mil still took the older two aside to tell them that I had been invited just so they knew! Aibu to feel slightly annoyed at this?
My inlaws know I do not lie to my children and that I am very fair which is why I let there dad have them for xmas dinner seen as I have them all the time, he also has any contact at any time with them and my inlaws it's all amicable!
am I being a little over sensitive! Bearing in mind she hasn't asked once how they are coping since the split!

noeffingidea · 28/12/2017 08:16

Take it down whenever you want. It's your tree.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 28/12/2017 08:21

Mine came down yesterday. Likes having it, but feels great to have it out the way.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 28/12/2017 08:22

So do what you like.

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