I don't even like calling it a bucket list but it covers what I mean, life aspirations or desires to fulfill . I spoke to a friend who does have one and is going through it. I was in awe of the amazing places she's been and things she's done. She asked me had I and I struggled to come up with one thing. It's not as if I'm well traveled, or that I parachute at the weekends. No, I just couldn't come up with anything. I'm in a bad place with my marriage, I've young children, we're not well off, you'd think I'd have a long wish list! I wish I had ! Anyone else not have one?