Family are coming over today. I'm have mobility issues/disability and not able to help much with the preparations.
I was asked by dh to make a list and him and Ds would get it all done over Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, just leaving a few last minute bits to do today.
Dh procrastinated and has left far too many jobs to get done before our guests arrive. I'm getting really twitchy. Ds has gotten distracted by a video game and also did most of his list of chores in plenty time but still has a few bits to do. I'm reluctant to nag him because he's been so helpful.
I'm really annoyed with dh. He is doing bare minimum cleaning/clearing up because and he pretty much needs walked through every step of the way of each job. He asks for guidance....I'd rather he just got on with it.
Guest bed still to be made. Bathroom still to be cleaned. Food to be cooked. Table to be set....plus loads of other things and guest arrive in 1 1/2 hours. They are also bringing a significant part of dinner.....so he doesn't have to cook much at all.
Dh says he has plenty of time....and to get Ds to do stuff.
Previous years I'd be doing practically all of this myself. Really pisses me off that he can't make more of an effort. I'm so frustrated not being able to do what needs done. It's like torture.