My OH has a seizure disorder, and is on several strong medications to try to control them. He has damage to his spine from his violent seizures, and flashing lights can trigger them. His specialists, doctor and councillor have all told him he shouldn't be playing iPad or computer games that flash on the screen. He won't listen to them or me, and keeps playing the games. Now he is lying to me about it. We have a nearly 2 year old, so I can't understand why he is doing something that makes his condition worse and that he has been told not to do. AIBU to ask him to stop, or do I just accept that he can do whatever he wants even though it isn't best for our family? I don't know what to do.