To feel like shit. I'm in the middle of cleaning stairs, when there's a knock on door, it's a friend of ours we haven't seen for about thirty five years. He and his DW went to live in Italy. Cut a long story short, we had to change date of wedding in 1980. His DW owned a shop doing manicures. I asked my DH to let her know, she would have to change date of closing shop. As I worked night's and probably wasn't going to see them, much before new date. DH didn't let them know, she went mad, because she told customers the shop was closed on first date we booked. Back to present day, and I asked him where DW was, he said she still blamed ME for shop debacle, and didn't want to come. I think it was preferable to blame me, because may DH was big friends with them before I came on scene. I feel really upset she still holds a grudge after all this time. AIBU to think she should hold this grudge for DH or at least both of us.