I am here again looking for some advice. My husband and I are constantly arguing over money even though both our combined salary is alright, and we are not short of money. He wants me to spend more money because I earn more, which is fine, but I had to help him out when he lost his jobs previously which made me put my plans on hold like getting driving licence or learning music etc, mind you, he always taunt me saying I am boring because I have no interest when deep down I know if it wasn’t for him putting financial pressure I would have carried on with my archery or pursue other interest. During those bad times we used my credit card to which I am still paying back by working two jobs. It’s always money, he always compares himself to me, he has made this marriage a competition, I pay most of the bills anyway. He goes buy himself expensive car for example than ask me to cut back on my expenses because he can’t save as much as I can. I really love him, but I also feel like I am in denial here that we have more deeper issues than finances. Just now I received a text from my husband saying, “just for fun, I want to take lie detector test” is it normal behavior? Please guide me here..