Would you be a bit...

[JarethLovesMe]

if your DH posted a meme containing this quote on FB and tagged another woman (ex work wife).

Talk me down. NC just in case...

She's my person. If I murdered someone, she's the person I'd call to help me drag the corpse across the living room floor.

What do you mean by ex work wife?

YANBU. In fact, I’d be a bit .

On the other hand, it could just be an in joke?

Enjoy He’s changed jobs and no longer works with her. She’s still in same job. They did work very closely for long periods of time.

So is she his ex-wife?

No JeReviens ‘Work wife’

Change to ex colleague if you like.

Could just be an in joke between them as it's not a romantic quote? Maybe ask him?

I'd be more upset that my husband was sharing and tagging people in these ridiculous memes. How embarrassing.

But YANBU.

Think it's absolutely fine. Just a reference to them going through stressful times at work and getting on well. Nothing more.

Sounds fine to me. You'd want to look after your spouse by not getting them involved, and choose someone you'd trust to protect your back, ie a team mate

I'm torn. It sounds like the kind of in joke I'd make with various men I work with, we regularly post on social media about helping each other hide bodies following a particularly long and bizarre conversation one day. DH knows about these conversations and wouldn't bat an eyelid. I also know the context of that quote and that it originally appeared in a work context and that people in work environments often have a bitch to each other about clients/customers.

If you were concerned about their relationship in the first place though I can see how it would make you uneasy, that he is outwardly saying he trusts her above anyone else.

I think I'd try and take it in the spirt of the former though!

There's a man I work with who could easily have done uploaded this about me. It's entirely innocent in my case, we used to joke around that I had an evil streak and would be the best person to go to for advice on where to stash a body. It means nothing. I think you're reading way too much into this.

Disclaimer: am not actually evil and have never needed to stash a body....

I don’t know if I feel just a bit ‘she’s your person?!’

In the interest of not drip feeding. They worked together for around 5 years. We’ve been together 10, married for 7. 1 DC another one due very very soon. I’m very sure nothing has ‘gone on’ but there is a kind of inappropriateness I’ve noticed with him very recently which I think this probably illustrates.

Don’t know if this makes any sense. Trying very hard not to be too outing!

It's a grey's anatomy quote. It is about friendship rather than anything romantic if that makes you feel better?

I'm a 'work wife' me and him are a team, we know where the bodies are buried and support each other. Zero attraction, we are just really good workmates. There doesn't always have to be something romantic going on.

I'd be more upset that my husband was sharing and tagging people in these ridiculous memes. How embarrassing.

Ha! Yes! I totally agree with this

Are you always jealous?

I must confess I googled the quote so know it’s from Greys Anatomy. He’s never watched it.

It really doesn't illustrate anything innapropriate. (sp?)

Funnily enough Splinterz no. You don’t tend to survive nearly a decade of marriage being jealous. Did I say I was jealous? Is the emoticon for jealousy?

Well yes you are jealous, because you're concentrating on the 'she's my person' when you (rightly) think you should be 'his person' but it's meant in an entirely different context. I do understand why it smarts tho.

Is 'work wife' a new thing? I've seen it a lot on MN recently.

I don’t know why it’s hit a nerve. I’m particularly fat, grim and pathetic at the moment with baby due immenently. This is most likely the problem!

Are you always jealous?

Great comment, so helpful.

I understand what you mean OP - it sounds like she's his 'partner in crime', which you usually associate with a best friend or significant other. I wouldn't like it either, but seeing as he's done it openly on Facebook, I'd guess he doesn't realise and means nothing by it.

Hmm nah not for me. I'd be annoyed.

Oh Jareth don't be like that! (Labyrinth?) my oh has one woman friend and it gets to me, like you i'm not a jealous person etc but sometimes you get a bit grr.