DS is 18 (19 in Feb) and is at uni - supposedly full time but only seems to be there a few hours a week. He also works around 8-16 hours a week. The rest of the time he sits in his room in his underwear covered in a duvet at his computer desk. He is surrounded by crisp and sweet wrappers, pot noodle pots, takeaway wrappers, Coke bottles, beer bottles, mucky clothes and god knows what else.
He does absolutely nothing around the house. When he runs out of clean clothes he dumps piles of them from his floor into the wash basket and that's it.
Yesterday he was home all day, DH and I were at work. He'd bought some sausages and made a fry up leaving the pan in the oven with half an egg in it, oil all over the hob, sausages left open on the side ... the kitchen was full of mucky pots and he never thought to load the dishwasher - just added to the mess and then buggered off back upstairs.
I made DH and I lamb shanks for tea and told him to sort himself out. DH told him whatever he cooked he needed to tidy up afterwards ... so he ordered takeaway!! He after being lectured about the mess he's leaving every day, he went and left the takeaway wrapper slung across the kitchen work top.
He pisses all over the bog and bathroom floor, leaves wet towels on the floor or in the bath - the house is just a shit hole and the majority of it is him. He pays no board either so is slobbing here for free whilst spending his student money on gadgets and takeaways.
AIBU to tell him that he needs to start looking at student accommodation? We've had many a talk about the house and he just doesn't listen. He can't even be arsed to put a sheet on his bed so has been sleeping on a bare mattress for months.
I'm beyond fed up of it now and it makes me not want him living here anymore.