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Not aibu but advice needed

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Aftereights91 · 17/12/2017 18:11

My toddler has had a cough and cold today but seems a bit worse tonight. He's warm to touch but no temp, but his breathing is a little fast. Approximately 56 bpm when awake and a little lower when asleep. His chest isn't suckling in and he doesn't seem to be struggling to breathe, just breathing a little faster. Does this sound like just a cold? Only asking as when I've rung 111 before for other things they always say they'll get a doctor to ring me back and it's always hours later when I've made a decision on what to do, so just seems a bit pointless

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QueenNefertitty · 17/12/2017 18:17

56 breaths per min is way over where it should be for a toddler, and is a bit of a red flag.

What's his temp without meds?

With breathing that fast, I'd take him straight to OOH- kids hide stuff like pneumonia incredibly well.

If he had a temp over 39.5, a temp that wasn't responding to meds, a wheeze,a rash, or I felt uneasy, I'd be at A&E with breathing rate that fast....

QueenNefertitty · 17/12/2017 18:18

Not to be alarmist- sorry! It could be just a cold- but it also might not be- I know from sore experience with my own DS.

Aftereights91 · 17/12/2017 18:20

Oh I didn't realise it was that high I thought it was just a little high :( his temps fine I've checked with different thermometers, his skins warm but no temp, I've only given him calpol in case he's got a sore throat from coughing I didn't need to give him it for temp

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nocoolnamesleft · 17/12/2017 18:21

If he's not got a high temp, then that breathing rate is too fast for a toddler.

3littlemonkeys82 · 17/12/2017 18:21

A 1-5 year olds respiratory rate should really be taking 20-30 breaths per minute. Please call out of hours or take him to a walk in centre.
Hope he feels better soon

QueenNefertitty · 17/12/2017 18:23

Sorry OP- didn't mean to scare you. Over 1, breathing rate at rest should typically be below 30 in a week child.

I'd call 111 if he seems otherwise well (cold aside)- I've had a few hairy times with DS lately, and fast breathing has always been something that makes medics prick up their ears.

QueenNefertitty · 17/12/2017 18:23

Well child, sorry

Aftereights91 · 17/12/2017 18:23

Oh christ right I'll take him to the walk in, thanks guys

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QueenNefertitty · 17/12/2017 18:24

Hope all okay- let us know how you get on

Foodylicious · 17/12/2017 18:30

How is he in himself? Playing as normal or lethargic and pale?
It's normal for reaps to be a bit high with infection but that does sound a bit worrying.
I would get them checked tonight x
Good luck hope he is better soon x

Foodylicious · 17/12/2017 18:31

Another red flag are them using their accessory muscles to breath, so shoulders going up and down much more than normal

Aftereights91 · 17/12/2017 18:53

Well we're getting ready to go and now it's gone down to 46 ish breaths per minute. And yes perfectly fine in himself been playing happily all day

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Aftereights91 · 17/12/2017 19:10

Down to 32 now and he fell asleep while I was getting sorted, so I'll keep an eye on him and if it picks back up at all I'll take him up to the walk in, thankyou all

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ilikefastcars · 17/12/2017 19:25

Sounds like bronchiolitis he needs to see a dr x

Spartaca · 17/12/2017 19:30

How old a toddler? My 8 wk old is just recovering from bronchiolitis, docs said they don't medicate etc as it is viral, but if they struggle they help with breathing etc.

Aftereights91 · 18/12/2017 12:19

He's much better today, still coughing but no more fast breathing

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