After 2 years together, DP who is admittedly the love of my life, and myself broke up around 3 months ago. It was over something I did (not cheating but massively broke trust) but over the past few months, we have been unable to lose feelings and both admit we are very much in love. However, our relationship sort of dwindled in our last months we were together and we have both decided that we must become a lot more emotionally independent and be happy with ourselves as individuals before we can rebuild our relationship.
However, I still would like to send a christmas gift to him with a note reminding him how much I still love him etc. We do talk everyday to check in but don't see each other regularly. WIBU to send a gift? He wouldn't want me to waste money but I really would like to still make him feel good and appreciated as his family business is running 6am to 9pm for the remainder of the christmas season so I know he will be feeling run down from this.
Also, I was thinking something simple like a blanket (to keep warm during our time apart blah blah) but he recently got an electric blanket. So any other ideas? Minimal gifts but thoughtful? I can't really think..