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WIBU to take this cat

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Imalloutofoptions · 12/12/2017 00:14

I work in an office based on a farm. I started in May and the cat had been there since November, he 'turned up' with a sister who vanished (hopefully taken and rehomed, but who knows) anyway, this cat is not too savvy, he needs rescuing from rooves etc. But is a total sweetheart, he tried to come in the office when it rains and absolutely loves attention. About two weeks ago he was hit by a car and needed his leg amputated, the man who owns the farm said he would be put down because the vet bill was large. My colleagues and I pulled the money together and after care would be provided by a man who rents a field from the farmer. The farmer (our landlord) insists he is a 'farm cat' but he isn't, wasn't born on a farm, was clearly dumped. After his op, I took him home. they've finally noticed he's missing, I don't regret taking him as the snow could've killed him but I'm sooo scared of repercussions, I'm terrible at lying even though I know I won't bring him back.

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Myheartbelongsto · 16/12/2017 03:01

Oh op you are an angel! Say nothing

Myheartbelongsto · 16/12/2017 03:03

Can you talk to your colleagues, sounds like they care about him so might be happy to keep schtum. What a lovely thing you've all done for him.

I have tears in my eyes as I rescued a cat and my ex husband shot her.

Imalloutofoptions · 16/12/2017 03:08

Myheartbelongsto thats fucking terrible, is your cat ok?

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Monkeypuzzle32 · 16/12/2017 05:49

Cats find their own homes and he's found his by the sound of it!

shouldwestayorshouldwego · 16/12/2017 06:02

Was that the stray which when the vet scanned it found a microchip and it went back to the owners after recouperating Xmas Wink?

I would suggest finding some proper feral cats for the farmer. Ours lived rough for a while and while one of them was fine and had obviously been hunting the other one only got by on stolen human food. She even stole crisps from the children's hands. Cats are not all born equal and not worth trying.

NoFucksImAQueen · 16/12/2017 06:46

The farmer didn't care when he needed vet care and was going to let him die. He also didn't care enough to chip him and care for him properly so no yanbu

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