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He tried to make me wear another girls clothes

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rosiesredcheeks · 10/12/2017 17:08

Me and my ex have recently started seeing each other again after still been sleeping together the last couple of months and I found out he'd actually slept with 6 other girls since we broke up (3 months ago) but anyway we built a bridge and got over it. And decided to be exclusive again. He said he regret all of it and I believed him.

I stayed at his on Friday night and in the morning realised I'd forgotten to pack my tights. He then handed me a pair of skeleton Halloween tights and told me to wear them. He said they belonged to his housemate. Obvs I said I think I'll just go without. I didn't mention it or think much of it then a few hours later I realised the Halloween tights belonged to that of a one night stand (I'd seen her instagram after stalking my ex's social media and she was wearing the skeleton tights on Halloween) I was mortified.

I went absolutely mad at him when I realised I was beside myself with fury.

Why the fuck would you give someone a pair of tights to wear belonging to your one night stand????

He seems to think "sorry" is acceptable enough and said I was overreacting. I am mortified. How is this okay???

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SquirrelPlantedBeech · 10/12/2017 17:58
Xmas Hmm
BornInSydneyy · 10/12/2017 18:00

Interesting first post

Tiddlywinks63 · 10/12/2017 18:04

Not condescending op, just bluntly truthful.
He's a skanky, unsavoury and indiscriminate. You can do much, much better.
You do need a STI check too as pp's have said.
Your low self esteem is not being helped (and is being added to) by staying with him.

kaytee87 · 10/12/2017 18:28

No one is being condescending. They're being honest. My advice to you is exactly what I'd say to a friend if they were in the same situation.

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