my partner and I live at home with my parents at the age of 25 lived there to help grandparents and house sit as there away quite a bit. The house is being sold and we need to be out by the end of summer 2018 we had planned on moving out and renting together but I got given a big inheritance enough to cover half a house down south with a mortgage for the rest. I can’t afford to pay mortgage alone on my wage. He had planned to buy a new car in January for himself his car is dying slowly door handle fell off yesterday using nearly all his savings or getting a loan. If he gets a loan it will effect the mortgage we get I’m sure but if he uses all his savings he won’t have any to put into the house deposit even though it will make minimal difference to the mortgage compared to what I’ve put in. My friends all think he’s being cheeky and should forget about the car I don’t drive he does all the driving. He will also be paying more each month and we will have a soliceter draw up a contract so I get any money I put in back when we sell so I will never be out of pocket. Am I being nieve and is he just using me