Work Christmas night and boyfriend

[Pickledonion24]

We are having a works Christmas night it’s also open to the public. Boyfriend said he was coming and not going to his work party drinks at the office. I told him to go and not come to mine as I figured it’s was no big deal and his work drinks are a nice thing to go to. All day he’s said he would be coming to mine at 8 and only staying at his for one drink as he couldn’t leave his car at work over night. His phones off or died he’s not turned up I’m hungry don’t no if he’s eaten at or not I haven’t as we where going to have dinner together. I don’t no if he’s staying out all night aibu for
Just wanting a text saying I’m staying out sorry or will be home later. We live together been going out 2.5 years

He’s phoned to say he’s staying out I’m going home will enjoy my evening

Ohh .......I thought it was Sharon from Accounts

@Pickledonion24 He also working on a huge project a didn’t want a hangover at work.

I assume they aren't forcing the booze down his neck like foie gras geese though? So he could just have a nice time and have 1 drink and drive home anyway?

I love Christmas mince pies

@gemini69 I prefer a Fourth of July mince pie myself if I’m honest.

@conedyboobs I may have had a Sharon moment and thought the op was asking who Sharon was 😂😂

I don’t mind him being out i don’t mind being alone but telling had it been the other way round I Would of text him to say I’m not coming not once the event was over

I don't think I understand this.

I think you just need a glass of water and bed op. And then maybe a chat with your bf in the morning

Most confusing

I should have said I have issues with writing and getting my words out

Bf was coming to my event told me this afternoon he still was never turned up then rang when it had finished to say he was staying out

So now you’re going home with parents, yes?

Do you live with your boyfriend?

Tomorrow, say he was inconsiderate not to tell you, he’ll apologise if he’s any way decent, and that will be that!

Has he explained himself op?

Yes he came home apologised everyone at work assumed it was going to be a crap office party turns out they suprised they all with stuff he sent me pictures of it so I know it’s true. He said he left his Phone in his office while the announcement was happening and never had the chance to go get it. Your not allowed phones when these happen due to client confidentiality. I’ve signed one before at his old job when we went to a client Christmas party. He came home at 11 he’s taking me to dinner tonight to say sorry for missing my event so all is well.