The little fuckers!!
Bit of background. I'm a SAHM to 7 DC's. DS 1 and 2 have left home. DS3, DTS's, DS6 and DD still live at home.
DH works long hours. What he does is actually unclear: he seems to have enough time to obsess over rubber ducks and the like, but not enough time to do much around the house. I do have help (clothes that knit themselves, self washing pots, etc) but not much support around me when it comes to raising the DC's.
DS6 boards at an exclusive school. Last year, he met a boy there who has very little family of his own, and his remaining family are abusive. I was happy that DS6 had made a friend. I took him under my wing a little. I sent him fifts for Christmas, etc. The boy got on well with the DTS's too.
Recently, however, I've started to worry about the influence the boy has over my DS's. Last year, DS6 came home talking about falling into weed, seieing game pieces moving, and stones! Stones? Are they getting stoned in their free time while at school?
DS6 has become very involved in the boy's home life: constantly writing, worrying, The DTS's have also been worrying about the boy.
An hour ago, I woke and went to quickly check on the DC's. The DTS's are not in their beds: nor is DS6.
DH has been pimping up a car for a year. It's kept in our garden. This is also gone.
What do I do?
AIBU to hit the butterbeer?