Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To give my baby some sauce from a jar?

61 replies

crazypenguinlady · 24/11/2017 14:31

I was supposed to be making salmon with sweet potato and broccoli for dinner but I've come down with an awful cold which is affecting my asthma slightly and DS also seems to be sniffly and looks like his first tooth is coming through. He's actually in a happy mood but we've also been hit with baaaad seperation anxiety and gets cross if I so much as turn my back. I had planned on using his nap to make food but I still need to put shopping away, the house is a mess and need to sort laundry, which I will now need to do once he's asleep.

I'm already struggling as I feel so rotten. I now cannot be bothered to cook the meal I originally planned so was thinking of throwing together some pasta with a sauce from a jar. Can I give some to DS? I'm worried about the salt content.

For context, today he's not eaten much - half a slice of toast with banana, small handful of Cheerios, yoghurt with mixed berries, tiny bit of jacket potato with tuna mayo. Normally, nearly everything is homemade, even chips so only traces amount of salt.

So, AIBU to give him a tiny bit of a ready made jar of sauce for dinner? He's a few days shy of 9 months.

Oh and sorry for the novel, I also needed to vent Grin

OP posts:
Whatsoccuringlovely · 24/11/2017 16:06

Mumsnet is not crazy as most posters have supported and reassured the lovely op.

Come on ladies we have all been there. By baby 5 I had a 9 year old feeding and babysitting the toddler while I dropped dc 8 to rugby class.

They are all resilient and sensible adults. One day dh and I will b too Grin

TheCatIsMyEnemy · 24/11/2017 16:44

jars of sauce usually have a strong flavour.

Most don't even have a flavour.

TheCatIsMyEnemy · 24/11/2017 16:45

I did the organic homemade faff when DS was weaning until he was about 2 and became a fussy eater and then I gave up.

Same. No refined sugar, loads of organic veg etc. I was very smug.

He is now 20 months and will only eat ham, toast, yoghurt, Pom bears and chips. No exaggeration.

Mamabear4180 · 24/11/2017 16:49

It's fine!

It's important to be careful of salt with babies but the odd thing here and there won't hurt. You don't need to avoid it altogether and worry about every little thing. Maybe put less sauce on his, I use a tiny bit in babie's dinners.

lionguard · 24/11/2017 17:20

I live somewhere ( perfectly civilised) where salt is practically seen as a health food, so I could never get over excited about salt in the diet.

I'd far rather food tastes of something for the DC.

TheLastSoala · 24/11/2017 17:25

Don’t forget both breast milk and formula milk have salt in them.

Nothing wrong with minimising salt content in their diet, but it’s very dangerous to eliminate it completely.

Ecureuil · 24/11/2017 17:27

Neither of my children would have eaten plain pasta... so bloody bland. And Parmesan is full of salt anyway!

Gingernaut · 24/11/2017 17:28

The salt content will probably be too high.

Battleax · 24/11/2017 17:32

The current salt witch-hunt was triggered by an horrific abuse case several years ago. Pp who recommended a sense of proportion was quite right.

ItsAllABitStrangeReally · 24/11/2017 18:43

Battleax I think the awareness was raised 15 yrs or so ago when my ds was a baby. A mum had been feeding her baby mashed potato and gravy pretty much daily(( due to poverty, not neglect )) and her baby died.

There was a big, awareness drive around then but as a one off no harm will be.done. It's easy to get confused when there's so much different advice out there

Ttbb · 24/11/2017 18:46

You can stir some egg and a tiny bit of cheese through the pasta (cooking the egg in the process obviously) if you want as an alternative

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread