Usually me and my DM get on well - usually when we aren't living together. I have had to move back home (mis 20's) after my postgrad, as I am earning rubbish money and need to save. DM has said she is more than happy with this, and has been fantastic and supportive. The issue is her BFF. She is a lovely woman, but my DM feels the need to tell her EVERYTHING not only about her life (fine, her business,) but about mine too and has a huff when I call her out on it. I recently confided in my DM about an issue and asked her not to immediately get her BFF involved, and got a long lecture on how I don't want her to have any friends or be happy, and I want her to be isolated, and how her BFF would know exactly what to do....I love my DM, want her to be happy, and don't doubt her BFF would have all the answers, but I just wanted a chat with my mother! It feels as if there are three people in our relationship, and I'm greeted with a huff if I don't indulge. It has got to the point where I am reluctant to tell DM anything or ask her advice, because I know it won't stay between the two of us, which is a huge shame.
Sorry for the essay, just wondering if IABU in wanting my DM to keep my private life private, or do I need to suck it up as I'm back under her roof temporarily??