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Violent ex

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Linzilou1985 · 21/11/2017 20:51

I split with my violent ex 6 years ago, we have two 6 year olds together. He sees our dc every week and is a good father to them.

He split with his girlfriend back in February, he was violent towards her. She told me. He also told me that she was violent to him etc. Thankfully dc were not there and I did change contact to supervised only for a while.

I have just found out that he is back with his ex and they have been seeing each other for two months. She has had contact with my dc which I did not know about.

Aibu to be extremely concerned about letting my dc go to his and potentially witness something? I’m just not sure what to do or what my rights are? I’m considering legal advice, however I don’t have any proof that he was violent towards her. The fact that he was violent to me is now irrelevant 6 years later. I have had legal advice over him previously.

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kitkatsky · 21/11/2017 22:29

Tell your solicitor what you know. You might not have evidence but that doesn’t mean you’re not credible

Linzilou1985 · 22/11/2017 06:25

Thanks for your reply. You’re right it’s definitely worth a shot, I’m sure that he’d deny this to any professional person though.

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