DH and I have been going through a rough patch in our relationship. It lasted about a year and had been slowly improving over the last six months or so.
With all that has gone on, our sex life fizzled out & died for quite a while & again we seem to be slowly getting back on track although my libido is def not all that it was say two years ago before all the drama.
So last night my DH mentions sex three or four times over the course of the evening- in jokey ways but it’s clear that he wants sex. I kind of bat him away and also remind him I’m still on my period so not feeling up for it.
In bed that night, I wake up with him rubbing my thigh so I bat his hand away, this happens a second time & I say “no thank you” slightly crossly. Then in the middle of the night, I wake up & he’s rubbing me in between my legs obviously trying to get me horny so I’ll wake up & have sex with him.
This makes me livid as I’ve already said no a number of times & it feels like he’s just disregarded my feelings & “taken what he wants” anyway.
Aibu to feel like this or am I overreacting? He wants to “talk” tonight as he’s realised he’s pissed me off but I don’t know what to say.