AIBU about Ex purposely calling my son (not his) the wrong name.

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So DS1 has come home from a weekend with his dad and told me that he has been purposely calling DS2 (my younger son, not his and has nothing to do with him) a silly nickname because he thinks his name is ‘Stupid’.

DS2 is 3. AIBU to find it disgusting that he would upset his own DS this way by being rude about his little brother and also just disgusted that he would be nasty about a 3 year old?

I don’t plan on saying anything (I think) because he really isn’t worth it. I think I just wanted a rant 😞

Did he already have your address? Or was this a ruse to find out where you lived?

Document everything, this is abuse.

If I were you I’d do nothing to encourage contact, Make this year do all the running of at all possible and just stave his need for drama of oxygen by calmly documenting it all and when you have enough to get this taken more seriously, speak to social services and start making moves to loosen the court order

Man-child. What a silly little man.

Im not sure that the in us if dealing with this should be put on the children, actually. They're too young. If you don't want to say anything OP, why do you think they would? Rare is the young child who'd feel comfortable and unafraid re pulling up their own dad. You need to deal with this - not your sons. Stand up for your sons. Your ex is a dickhead and needs to be told to stop. However that happens.

Or eventually you surely won't send your son there - will you? Not in an atmosphere where he is being purposely upset. So this needs addressing now, if you can get support to do it then all the better.