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To be cacking myself at starting new job

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EliseC1965 · 19/11/2017 22:49

I’m 52 years old and I’ve always worked apart from after ds2 and exh left, so I went to uni. I’d always done office jobs, some hotels and restaurant stuff. Then I got my degree and pgce so started teaching at the local fe college. That was 10 years ago and I’ve been doing a Masters part time for the last year. As a result of this, I’ve been updating my LinkedIn and a fortnight ago got a call from a recruiter about an admin job.
I’ve been looking about anyway as I’ve been getting more and more stressed at work, but this was a call out of the blue and I decided to go for it. Lovely interview and I was there for 2 hours! Then got called back for 2nd interview:another 2hours. Lol. And then I got the call to say I got it. Got an email later giving a formal offer, so I handed in my notice.
The money is a lot less, but is affordable and I get my life back. Plus it’s near dh’s Work, so he can drop and pick me up on his office days. And I don’t have to start until the New Year. And I get time off for my MSc as well!

But I am cacking my pants over it! It’s in my degree field and I know in my head that I can do it. But I still have the stupid voice in my head that says I’m faking it and I’ll get found out. Even though I’ve been teaching business for the last 10 years!!

I am such a bloody scaredy twat and part of the reason I stayed put has been the fear factor. I don’t want this fear to put me off enjoying a new start. But the company is so nice and I don’t want to be shit at my job. Aargh! I need a slap. Dh just says don’t be stupid lol.
Is this normal?

OP posts:
EliseC1965 · 19/11/2017 22:50
  • should say after ds2 was born.
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PurpleWithRed · 19/11/2017 22:52

It’s perfectly normal, but here’s a slap anyway from me if it helps. You will be absolutely fine. Probably brilliant. Have fun 😊

user1471598890 · 19/11/2017 22:56

Totally a normal reaction,try not to worry, easier said than done though. Good luck! Xx

HermionesRightHook · 19/11/2017 23:03

That sounds brilliant! Being nervous is normal though and the imposter syndrome you're feeling is really a sign that you're very competent - competent people often feel like anyone can do their job because it's so second nature to them. You'll do beautifully.

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