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AIBU-Charity Adverts

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valuerangeweetabixandmilk · 17/11/2017 22:20

In light of the other thread on Children In Need, to which posters suggested the OP not watch it if she was irritated by it I was reminded of something I have commented on numerous times.
I appreciate every charity needs as much exposure as possible, I do, and most of the causes are really important.
However I struggle in particular with the Macmillan ads. I have had close family members lost to cancer and really get upset by the graphic nature of the ads, it is like revisiting the horrendous dying process which I am totally still haunted by. And they come without warning too, so I just start to relax for the evening and all of a sudden will be someone on chemo or who has lost their hair. It really takes me to a place I don't want to be, and it is all the time.
I realise this makes me sound entitled and that Macmillan really do help as do Marie Curie but the Macmillan adverts in particular upset me. I suppose I know most people will say IABU from having a relative helped by them. I am not asking that they don't ask for support but the adverts are really graphic and triggering for me.
I also find the coffee mornings and the head shaving events hard, but I can avoid those.
Just wondered if others felt like it. I do realise that it is a good cause. It just seems like a reminder of my worst experiences every advert break.

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user1497997754 · 17/11/2017 22:28

I hate all the cruelty to animals charity adverts and have to look away and turn volume on TV down....really upsetting

NoKidsTwoCats · 17/11/2017 22:48

Adverts aside, I don't do Macmillan tbh. In the main because they were involved in the tender process of our NHS cancer services to private healthcare companies...

valuerangeweetabixandmilk · 17/11/2017 22:54

Thanks
Yes I didn't think of the animal ones. I also turn over when I see one.
I have heard many things about macmillan, not sure what to make of it.

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