AIBU to not move out?
Getting a divorce. Proceedings started. But we're still living at a stale mate. Husband could easily move out into his fathers large home. He is set to inherit a lot of money, even after tax, and his father is terminally ill. It sounds crude, but he won't be struggling for money.
I have the three kids (7-15) and do all childcare. I also work full time and can afford the mortgage. However moving out into a (smaller) house would be £300 a month more and we have animals.
I don't want to live here permanently. I will sell eventually.
But AIBU to think that one of us has to move out and it should be H as he already has someone to go and this way my children don't have to be uprooted as well?
I can't leave them with him.
No idea what to do either... he's refusing to leave, I've asked him to do it for the children but be point blank refused and doesn't care if it means the kids being squashed into some tiny rental house miles away. Even my eldest son thinks he's being unfair and has actually said he can't stand the atmosphere 
I don't expect him to just give me the house but for know one of us needs to go and AIBU to think it should be the parent who is not the main carer?
FWIW if he was the main career I would move out