To be annoyed?

[milkywayss]

I've come to see my boyfriend for a couple of days, who lives an hour away. I came up on Monday, I'm leaving this afternoon. On Monday night we went to a pub quiz with his friends, which I enjoy. But afterwards they all decided to go out. I didn't want to, so I stayed in bed and he joined me at about 4am, consequently ruining Tuesday as he was too hungover/tired to do anything. This morning I wanted to get up and go somewhere nice for breakfast/lunch before my train and 40 minutes ago he said he'd get up in 10 minutes. He's fast asleep. I feel as though I've come up to see him for no real reason. AIBU to be annoyed at him and just want to get up and go and catch the next train?

I'd be pissed off! I'd get up and go.

It’s a shame you didn’t drive up as you could just go home now. That is what I would do. What a waste of time off.

I'd just leave without so much as a "bye". Ignorant dick.

I'd leave. It will either make him realise what a dick he has been, or he won't and you will see where you stand and what little regard he has for you.

I would just leave too.

Leave without saying goodbye. He has no manners either.

Just leave and don’t see him again.

Just leave. He's an arse.

I'd exit stage left.

Go. If he regrets is he will have learned his lesson. If he doesn't then you will have learned where you stand.

Yanbu. I think I'd have left yesterday tbh. Just go. Don't say anything and see how long it takes him to notice and what he says. That'll tell you all you need to know about how much he cares for you.

Sounds like he's not actually very interested in you. Move on.

That’s really rude, I’d be upset too.

Hi everyone, thanks for your replies. He did actually wake up just as I was getting ready to leave and he was very apologetic. He did get up and we went out for lunch and a browse of the shops which was nice.

He walked me up to the train station and everything and I came home. He had to nip into work for 2 hours though, so I didn't expect any messages etc. But he finished at 5, and I've not had anything. I don't know whether I should message him or not? I feel really down about this whole situation. Feel as if I'm just not good enough

How Long you been together ?
It's not a nice feeling x

Yanbu to get the next train

You had planned this time together so it was bad form for him to then to decide actually he’d rather go out with his friends

Been together for almost a year now, and he's never made me feel this unimportant before

Either exit , or talk to him and explain how he's made you feel.