I am one of 3 girls but the only one with kids or even a partner right now. My sisters are both very generous and always buy presents for us all, so that's 4 presents they buy for my little family. We buy them a present (or two size and price dependant) each and cannot really afford to do anymore than that due to being totally skint but I always feel really guilty that they spend so much.
I know they are both thinking of chipping in together to buy a joint present for the kids this year. Does it look grabby if I suggest they do the same for me and DH? I hate that they spend so much on us and we cannot reciprocate.